Wondering

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My partner of 4 years and I are planning on starting a family within the next year and a half. Obviously there are many questions and we are finding the answers along the way. I've read quite a lot on lesbian mommy's experiences with schools etc but was wondering if anyone could tell me what experiences they had with their family's reaction when the decision was made how things changed (for better or for worse) their relationship with family members. I hope I make sense (hmm)

Hi, just been reading the above. We've just starting out on the donor finding route. We have decided we'd ideally like a KD who would have some sort of uncle role. My friend who is a single parent has lots of questions and stresses from her boy about not knowing who his dad is.
Anyway, I've read lots of peoples info about statements of intent etc, has anyone any advice about choosing your donor? One we had originally agreed on drove me crazy last week and was v patronising - not a good start . I think we need to start over. Any suggestions?

Thank you for your advice BeHereNow. Would you mind me asking if you are still in touch with your donor and if he has role if your DS life? I hope he slept through!