Hi, I am new here. My name is Em. I have been married to my wife of 5 years going on 6. We have one DD - 17, living with us full time. Her dad has been out of the picture for roughly 4-5 years. He’s done something to DD that becomes every mums worse nightmare. My wife has tried to be on equal grounds with my DD, my DD had lied, stole got into trouble and has an addiction. Yesterday was the big blow out. DD had 3 mods that were hidden in her room. She lied to us about having them or even admitting she’s got an addiction. My DW blew her fuse and yelled at DD for the first time in a long time. DW is so pissed that she hates my daughter for what she’s done. DW is uncomfortable, angry and doesn’t feel safe in the house with my DD. When I am around, DW is okay. I feel torn between the two. I told DW that I’d be dealing with DD and not to worry about it. I feel broken and the wedge between DW and DD is big. 6 years of lying, stewing and manipulating to us has made it the end for DW to want to have anything to do with my DD.
I feel broken and sad.
Not sure what to do... but to just to carry on being the boss of my DD and let DW do her own thing.
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FearlessHeart2112 · 19/10/2020 19:45
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