Don't know how I expect anyone to help me but I would be interested to know if anyone has any ideas about how I go about coming to terms with this as I don't seem to be able to.
I (and my mum) have suspected my Dad was gay since I was 12 (am now in 30's). Mum has now died and Dad, although seemingly living a gay life with friend who has moved into the family home, refuses to admit to us (my bros and I), that he is gay. We don't have a problem with it incidentally, we just would like it out in the open so we can all move on.
I now have definitive proof that he is gay so why does he lie about it and what am I supposed to do?
Everything feels like a sham it's awkward to visit them now, and we are worried that this other guy may have a claim on the family home, were anything to happen to Dad. AAAGH! I feel like I'm becoming a real obsessive weirdo.