Really struggling with partners family. I have a 7 month old son and he was exclusively breast fed and it’s not necessarily by choice ( he has been hard work taking the bottle ) so I’ve had to be with him 24/7 since he was born, the odd occasion I have pumped milk but I think it’s a normal thing anyway for a mother to spend all the time she can whilst on maternity. My partners family have gone on about wanting to look after him without me and at first I thought my MIL was being really helpful and caring but I’ve since come to realise she actually just wants full control. I have speant at least 2 days a week with them since he was born and had to put up with rude comments about my outfits, ds outfits and her acting like she is his mother ( she has her own change bag that she brings and makes me leave my own ) . I have always known she is hard work and my partner doesn’t even particularly get on with or see her a lot but always been able to handle and brush things aside but recently it’s been tipping me over the edge. If she doesn’t see him in a couple of days I have to deal with petty comments making me feel like I don’t make enough effort, but I think I make more than enough effort. She doesn’t work or have many friends which I think is the issue, and she has a daughter which I think in an ideal world she would like it to be her son which she has made unusual comments about aswell.... any advice?