I'm not unaware of LGBT by any means, but a close friend has recently told me they wish to transition from M to F.
Obviously I want to support my friend in this life changing decision, but how is best to do that.
Anyone on here that has transitioned/is transitioning, what is the one best thing a friend did for you?
Or what do you wish they had done?
Any and all advice is appreciated.
I have already told my friend she has my full support, and have lent her a dress until she gets her own wardrobe up and running.
I have listened and made sure she knows I believe in the need to transition so she can stop pretending to be someone she is not.
She asked me to organise her first girly night out, so she can introduce herself to the world as she is meant to be, I have done this, with friends who have never known her as a M, so she can simply just be F without having to explain herself (we talked about the friends I would organise for her first 'outing' and she wanted girls who didn't know her as M)
Also, any advice on the best way of telling my own children about the change would be appreciated.
I want to be 100% honest with them all, DH wants to be honest with the teens, but not our 7yo.
He thinks we can introduce our friend as a F without our DD realising, at this point I do not believe this is possible. I believe that DD will know it is our 'M' friend dressed as a woman, and will speak as such, which I feel would be worse for our friend.
I believe our friend will understand that our DD will have questions, but surely those questions would be better coming from DD knowing the situation fully?
Again, any advice will be appreciated.