A couple of days ago our 21 year old daughter dropped the bombshell that she's left her boyfriend of 5 years because she thinks she' s gay. We were stunned as they seemed so in love and happy as a couple and honestly never saw it coming. Despite being shocked we immediately told her we love her and accept her and want her to be happy. She' s also upset because she still loves him and he' s done nothing wrong; he was going to propose to her soon and he' s obviously distraught but she does not feel comfortable any more. In a way I am proud of her that she had the courage to stop this relationship now to avoid hurting him more. But on the other hand I am upset and sad for both of them, as until very recently they were planning their future together. I just wanted to vent here knowing the people who read this will understand.