There are mounting signs that my 15 year old DD is gay. She had hinted at numerous points but hasn’t actually said it. Obviously, I have always said all the right things a parent should say when anything has come up in conversation. She is also actively embracing a more masculine appearance.
My problem is that inside I’m breaking! I’ve googled what to do and say and read so many examples of parents handling things beautifully but I just want to sob. I don’t know why and I know it’s terribly unfashionable to have any issues with this but I’m really struggling. I don’t even know what issues I have.
I want to be ready and supportive and ok with this but I’m not. I feel like I’m grieving! What is wrong with me? I have loads of gay, bi, trans friends but this feels different and I can’t even work out why.
Do all parents truly find this easy? Is there anyone out there who has been on a trickier journey?
I know I’ll get lots of abuse which I know I deserve but I needed to put this out there.
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Orangelimes · 28/12/2021 21:28
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