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12 year old Son ‘outed’ and bullied

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Lonelybutnice · 29/04/2018 18:27

My 12 year old son broke down last night and told me that he has been ‘outed’ at school.
There was a situation at a sleep over a month ago where he kissed another boy. We told him at the time that we feel he’s too young for this type of behaviour but reassured him that the gender of the person is matterless, we just feel he’s too young to be acting on feelings.

This boy has now told everybody at the school (this boy is out and proud) and my son is now being jeered and teased about it.

He said it’s not really unbearable but that he’s really dreading the end of the weekend. He’s told me that he’s fairly certain he’s gay but that he’s not remotely ready to tell people about it.

My plan was initially to speak to the other boys mother but now I’m thinking to do directly to the school and ask them to address the issue immediately.

Does anybody have any advice on the best course of action to take please?

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keyboardjellyfish · 29/04/2018 18:30

I was outed around the same age. It's absolutely devastating.

I would recommend keeping him off school for a few days if possible whilst working with the school ASAP on tackling the bullying going on. It is completely unacceptable behaviour.

Lonelybutnice · 29/04/2018 19:54

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for your advice.

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Northernparent68 · 07/05/2018 00:09

I do n’t think talking to the other boys mother will achieve anything, the real issue is the bullying

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