please help, very stressed and fearing for safety

[clairelou87]

my daughter is 6wks old and 4m day 4 her dad has been wantin 2 take her 4 da nyt..he is abusive and threatnin 2 me. I giv him tym alne wid her in my room bt its stil nt enuf an he is demandin 2 take her 4 da day. I wnt let any1 in my hse 2 c her bt av offerd 2 meet his frens an fam outside my hse. He gav my numba out an threatnd 2 bring ppl round 2 cause 'mayhem' i realy need help, hw lng can i keep him 4m avin her overnight or takin her out 4 da day widout me? Im goin bk 2 wrk in september an want my mum 2 av her in da day. He wants 2 av her 3days durin the wk..can i stop this? We brooke up bcs he refusd 2 gt a job while i ws preg so he is hs spent minimul on her. Pls answer my questions, its makin me ill with worry x

In English? I can't understand a word of that

I'm sorry, I don't mean to be rude but I think you might get more replies if you type the words out in full, it's giving me a headache trying to read your post but I'm sure people would like to help.

And funny how the title doesn't match the style of the post at all. Do I assume we have one of our lovely journalist visitors tonight?

Agree with SandyBits - why the text-speak?

I think you need to look in the Yellow Pages or ask at Citizens Advice and find a solicitor who will do a first hour or half hour of free advice - lots of them do. Keep copies of anything that looks/sounds like a threat - texts, emails, whatever. It sounds like you need to come up with a proper, formal arrangement for access, and that will be decided on the basis of what's in the best interests of your daughter, not your Ex.

I wonder if the txt spk confusion works both ways and she is now looking at our posts in a similarly bemused fashion, trying to decipher all these vowels everywhere?

thankyou hassled i will take your advice, it was very helpful. I am sorry to those who could not undestand my txt. I am on a mobile so it is force of habit..growing technology, sign of my youth! I will go and study the dictionary now! Have a lovely night

oh,well done you lot!!

claire.....yes,good advice from hassled. keep copies of it all