ExH and I split 4 months ago, he was extremely EA and a very heavy drinker. Sadly DS 6 saw and heard far too much aggression towards me. Home is a much happier place now and DS and I are doing good. I have worked and continue to do so to ensure EX and DS have a good relationship (despite alot of bully and controlling issues from EX). Ex has DS one night weekly and every other weekend and more in hols.
However, Ex is now starting to do the following:-
TAke DS to pub and drive home
Take DS out of bike via pubs where EX drinks even more
Leaving DS alone in car when going into shops
Leaving DS alone outside sports club whilst he sits and drinks inside with friends.
Lets DS not wear bike helmet
Lets DS play 16+ violent video games
Lets DS go in others cars without booster seats
There is lots of other unsuitable stuff, but not that puts DS in danger.
I have tried to talk to Ex to be told to F off and he can do what he likes and to take him to court if I dare, as there is nothing they can do either.
He also insists he speaks to DS every morning and every evening - which I find excessive.
Where would I stand if this went legal, I just want him not to drink alcohol when he is with DS, not take him into pubs and to keep him safe.
I just whant them to have a good relationship and the access to continue but for him to do suitable things with a 6 year old.
Help please