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Should family courts take tech abuse more seriously?

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EverymanJustice · 13/07/2026 08:52

Has anyone had an ex-partner use technology to keep tabs on them after separating?
Things like tracking their location, checking their phone or accounts, or using a child’s device to monitor them.
If so, was it taken seriously during the court process, and did it lead to any restrictions or other action?

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Werhere · 13/07/2026 09:07

You have control over your own technology

turn off his access to your location
and when your child is with you - turn off their location

Werhere · 13/07/2026 09:08

Why on earth does he have access to your accounts?

You need to take ownership of your technology and accounts

so the first question you would be asked in court is… what do you do to limit his access?

stargirl27 · 13/07/2026 17:13

EverymanJustice · 13/07/2026 08:52

Has anyone had an ex-partner use technology to keep tabs on them after separating?
Things like tracking their location, checking their phone or accounts, or using a child’s device to monitor them.
If so, was it taken seriously during the court process, and did it lead to any restrictions or other action?

Solicitor here. Yes, it is taken seriously. The court can make a non-molestation order preventing your ex from doing these things and otherwise harassing you. It can also be raised by you as an allegation of abusive/harmful behaviour, and if the court finds that your ex has used technology to abuse/track you or your child, can and likely will influence final child arrangements.

EverymanJustice · 13/07/2026 20:40

Thanks, I appreciate the clarification.

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