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What are the next steps after a restaurant highchair accident?

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BessieBye · Yesterday 20:49

This evening we went to a local restaurant that we go to a fair bit. We had pre booked the table so it was set out with a highchair for my 7 month old DS

About 5 minutes after sitting down, my DH put my son into the highchair. For clarity it was an IKEA highchair with no tray, so the chair was tucked under and his body close to the table.

A minute later, the highchair fell to the floor - with my son in it. Turns out, the highchair only had 3 legs, one had been detached. The front left leg was missing so we did not notice as it was already tucked half under the table.

He fell still in the sitting position within the highchair and hit his head - it has a red mark and we have been to A&E, he’s fine. His chin must’ve missed the table by a cm.

My parents were with us and my Dad is ready to start WW3 and he told them to expect to hear from a solicitor. Manager of restaurant accepted that the leg was missing and it was their fault.

We left very soon after and obviously for me it is all a blur

My question is, will a solicitor actually achieve anything here? Is it worth it? He wants to pursue negligence

I am too shocked to be angry right now, I burst into tears everytime it replays in my head. I thought I was going to be physically sick.

thanks for any advice

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eastegg · Today 01:55

BessieBye · Yesterday 21:01

He fell to the side, still sitting in the highchair. He has hit his head yes, his arm was trapped beneath his body. I’m glad you also would feel furious because reading these replies I’m starting to wonder have I overreacted. It was horrendous, he was screaming.

Haven’t read the whole thread but you’re getting some really unsympathetic replies. What a horrible experience, really upsetting. Like the pp I would be furious although I understand you’re too upset to be at the moment. I wouldn’t sue, but I would expect the restaurant to be falling over themselves with apologies and assurances, and I’d also expect some bloody sympathy on here. Just seen someone call you disgusting. Wtaf?

Bruxismplate · Today 02:00

eastegg · Today 01:55

Haven’t read the whole thread but you’re getting some really unsympathetic replies. What a horrible experience, really upsetting. Like the pp I would be furious although I understand you’re too upset to be at the moment. I wouldn’t sue, but I would expect the restaurant to be falling over themselves with apologies and assurances, and I’d also expect some bloody sympathy on here. Just seen someone call you disgusting. Wtaf?

The unsympathetic replies (fairly few) are probably because she posted in legal matters - she didn’t ask for sympathy, she asked for legal advice/next steps.

MDDR · Today 02:02

Nearly50omg · Yesterday 22:04

Those high chairs are not suitable for babies your child’s age they are for older ones who can sit up on their own so why on earth did you even put him in there in the first place? He could easily have flopped forward and smacked his head off the table without the leg incident and the whole thing would have been your fault!

If you're going to be so unkind, at least make sure what you are saying is factually correct.

dancehysterical22 · Today 02:05

BessieBye · Yesterday 21:07

Because we couldn’t see it, it was tucked close to the table. We did not need to move the highchair to sit him in it

But I’m assuming you could see the legs if you’d checked?

menopausequeen · Today 02:33

Why does everyone want to sue all the time? There’s no long lasting damage and an apology would be fine for me and some sort of reassurance they’d learnt from it

Olive567 · Today 02:33

The Environmental Health Office (EHO) at your local council is the primary agency responsible for enforcing health and safety laws designed to protect customers. They investigate complaints and conduct routine inspections to ensure businesses are not putting the public at risk.

The EHO covers a wide range of customer safety issues including:
Food Safety & Hygiene: Ensuring restaurants, cafes, and food vendors are preparing and storing food safely.
Premises Hazards: Investigating slips, trips, or other physical hazards in customer-facing businesses (like shops, pubs, and care facilities).
Hygiene Standards: Monitoring public spaces like tattoo parlors, nail salons, and swimming pools for infection risks.

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