I have a question about inheritance laws for a Scottish resident. I understand the laws are different there which is why it's important to mention.
I am estranged from my father who lives in Scotland. He cut me off following his marriage to a Scottish woman when he relocated.
I understand from other family members who are in touch with him that he isn't well. I am getting anxious about what will happen when he dies. My understanding is in Scotland parents cannot disinherit children. Is that right? Is that just if they are not married? I cannot face dealing with his wife and her being forced to split his estate with me. It won't be a lot but he has a property there. She has her own property but they both live in his property. I don't care about getting anything from his estate so can I just forfeit any claim? She is really an unpleasant woman and I'd really rather not have anything to do with her but I also worry she might use his death as a way to punish me further.
The situation is complicated by the fact I have a sibling he is in touch with but they are also very unwell and may predecease him. My father sees them and their children and I know would want them taken care of. I also have children but he doesn't see them. If the worst happens and sibling dies before him and he must pass things on to me I would want my sibling's share to go to their children. Do I have control over that? Or would the children's share all come to me and then I'd need to pass it on once it's "mine"?
Sorry a lot of questions but I'm really ruminating on a lot of ifs and maybes and I really feel so awful.