Hello,
I have left my partner with whom I have two children. Over the last year I have attempted to try and buy his share of our house and separate whilst trying to keep myself and the kids in the house after finding out about behaviours such as cheating and drug use. He is emotionally abusive and shouts/ swears/ belittles me in front of the kids. It is really hard to obtain hard evidence of this but I have recently obtained footage of him shoving me, storming into my bedroom, slamming doors. Not sure if this is enough For a non mol.
This evening I have fled to my parents because he started shouting and I’m no longer exposing my children to that. I wish for him to just leave me and the kids alone but want to be in my own home. He refuses to acknowledge my wish to not be on a relationship with him. Do I have enough for a non mol? He has previously threatened me with recordings of me shouting when he has provoked me and accused me of physical abuse with some scratches on his arm that he has photos of. These things has terrified me as he has threatened to have social services take the kids
I paid around 2k for legal advice some weeks ago but the solicitor was umming and erring and I didn’t feel confident going ahead with it. It is the threats he has made to have the kids take off me that terrify me. I am a gooD mother and do 95% of the parenting - currently in May leave but not eligible for legal aid.
Since speaking with the solicitor I have obtained further footage of him being angry. He will most definitely contest the non mol.