My daughter and partner are buying their first house. The deposit is from savings. Solicitor asked where savings are from and she said from parents. Thing is, we gave this money years ago from a house sale and she just never spent it. So I can sign the Gifted Deposit Declaration but it says I am providing the sum of £ being part of the deposit for the property etc. - but that's not strictly true is it? I mean she could have spent it all on holidays for all I would know and this could now be 'different' money. I haven't got details of the house sale the money came from as it was ten years ago and the bank can only get statements to me showing the money coming in (and presumably going out) if I can give them a date.
I also gave regular money each month for ten years (about £100 a month which was really pocket money) and they want to see proof of that going in and out of the account too! Which would mean getting 12 bank statements each each for ten years?? It just seems overkill to me. Every time the solicitors get in touch there is something else they are asking for.
I guess what I am asking is - how far back is too far or do we just have to request these statements?
Really grateful for any advice.