Hi, so quick back story.. Divorced 5 years, kids 5050 since then, very low contact due to general hostility but nothing reportable.. until recently.
My eldest has been spending a lot more time at mine lately as says atmosphere at dad's isn't pleasant. He's 14 so I've not been forcing him to go there on 'dad's time'.
School have requested a family worker to spend some time with our kids which I'm supportive of. It's come to my attention through the family worker that dad has allegedly reported me to the school, police and this family worker for stalking and harassment. I'm a little flabbergasted, but not overly concerned as it's obviously not true in the slightest, so report away I suppose.
We had a Mediation session recently requested by my ex to discuss my son, as ex is angry he is spending less time there. During mediation he again accused me of stalking. I asked for examples which were he has spotted me near the primary school 4 or 5 times at pick up time on his days. I live 3 mins walk from school, often go for walks around my village, and also volunteer at the school sometimes.
His other example was he saw my car parked all day near a campsite he took the kids to last summer. I was working nearby and often cycle part way in the summer, so left my car all day and cycled to work as its a relatively safe spot. Didn't have a clue he was camping nearby!
Now, my legal dilemma... He admitted during mediation he has been monitoring my movements in my village near the school and making notes. He also admitted taking photos of my car while parked near his campsite. To me, this along with the allegations he's been making, constitutes stalking and harassment of me. Should I be reporting this to the police or just leave well alone, as the only evidence I have is his words during mediation, and presumably a police record of the false allegations against me?