I originally posted on AIBU which I think was the wrong place to ask for advice.
Our landlord is charging us for various things some of which we agree are our issues and some of which we disagree with. We think the charges are also inflated across the board. The EA emailed us the issues and charges and we have started a dispute though DPS.
DP and I are disagreeing on what we should do. He thinks we need to be polite and respond to the email, lay out our justification and provide quotes to rectify the issues.
I think we need to do it through DPS. I’m unsure of the next step though - do we reject every charge because we’re think it’s inflated? And is the next step to counter-offer? What if the work has already been done?
Also by raising a dispute are we going to end up with a bad reference? We don’t need one for the foreseeable future but you never know. We have had no issues with renting previously - how old are too old references?