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MummyofoneT · 18/09/2025 11:27

Hi,

I really need some help with this. I have a term time arrangement with my ex regarding our daughter. However he refuses to communicate now and we have set in stone plans for holidays, so instead these and they often result in my daughter getting upset because of various conflicts from him not communicating. We have no agreement to do with birthdays, Xmas, shared costs etc.
I'm stuck on the section that asks about psychological or emotional abuse because he has been abusive to me but not our daughter, plus I want to keep the arrangements how they are
.He is close with our daughter and I'm worried they might suggest full custody if they knew how awful he's been with me as he's so bitter. She would also be really upset if she saw him any less. With that in mind do you think I should be honest or leave that section blank?. I really don't want social services involved or my daughter questioned.

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prh47bridge · 18/09/2025 13:57

If you are referring to the questions about risk of harm, the question is whether your child has been harmed or is at risk of being harmed. If you don't think he will harm her, tick no. If you think he might, tick yes.

The other questions about abuse are related to whether you need to attend an MIAM. If you have attended one, you don't need to complete them. If you want to use his abuse of you to claim exemption from an MIAM, you need to tick whichever boxes relate to the evidence you have of his abuse.

MummyofoneT · 19/09/2025 07:46

Thank you. It was the box about whether he has been psychologically abusive to me. I have put yes but am just worried this may affect how much he sees her but hopefully it's just to do with attending mediation.

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