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Finding a lost divorce nisi

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Stompythedinosaur · 11/09/2025 18:47

Hey, I'm attempting to help a family member navigate a situation and wonder if anyone can point me in the right direction.

If someone completed a decree nisi for their divorce about five years ago, never did the decree absolute, and has lost all related paperwork, is there a way we can find the divorce nisi? We know the court it was issued at and I found a form for asking for a search for a decree absolute but can't find anything similar for a nisi.

Does anyone know?

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Arlanymor · 11/09/2025 18:48

Contact the court. They can supply the necessary paperwork for a fee.

Stompythedinosaur · 11/09/2025 19:43

@Arlanymor thank you! I'm not really clear about how I would contact the court. I have found a form D440 for requesting a decree absolute, but not sure about the decree nisi. How do I contact the court?

Complicatedly, the decree nisi was issued at a court that has since closed. I think the records must be somewhere though?

Really grateful for any advice!

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Arlanymor · 11/09/2025 19:48

So if the court doesn’t exist, its files would have been transferred somewhere else. Have you tried looking at gov.uk - they have a ‘find a court or tribunal’ function and if you enter as much information as you know they might be able to point you in the right direction. The link is here: https://www.gov.uk/find-court-tribunal

Also does your friend recall the solicitor who handled their case? They might be able to help - depending on time elapsed and there may be a fee - but worth a try.

It’s lovely that you are being such a good friend to your family member. 💕

Find a court or tribunal

Use court finder to find a court in England and Wales or a tribunal in England, Wales and Scotland

https://www.gov.uk/find-court-tribunal

Stompythedinosaur · 11/09/2025 20:07

@Arlanymor thank you! I'm trying to avoid a solicitor if I can as my family member has both some mental health and financial troubles.

Thanks for your advice, I've now found the court that the records have gone to.

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Arlanymor · 11/09/2025 20:12

Sorry to hear that about your family member, even more important that they have someone to advocate for them in that case.

Oh good! That’s a positive step forward, really hope that the court can put you on the right track to get the paperwork that you need. Reminds me I probably ought to get a copy of my decree absolute one day - nearly did once when I considered remarrying but never since then, I guess it would save me time to do it now while it’s still in the not-too-distant past (18 years!!)

Fingers crossed it is smooth sailing for you from here onwards!

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