Self representing

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Im in the family court process and thinking of self representing so I can convey my points and answer questions truthfully. Im nervous about attending court. Any advice. What is it like in the court room. I am determined to fight for my children’s rights.

Hi, I'm a magistrate in family court and litigants in person are, in my experience treated really kindly with lots of clarifying to make sure you fully understand what's going on.
If statements are required for further hearings you'll have a deadline so just make sure you adhere to that.
You can have a Mackenzie Friend for support.

If you can afford a barrister then get one - but if not (like most) self representing is very common. The usher will show you into the court and tell you where to sit. You'll sit in a row with the father/his barrister if he has one, and court guardian/their barrister if you have one.
The judge will enter when you've all got in your places, you need to stand when the judge comes in. The usher will tell you where to sit if it's time to cross examine or be cross examined.
Only speak when you're asked a direct question or when it's your turn to cross examine. Prepare your questions in advance. The judge may want to see them before you ask them. Be prepared for him or his barrister to ask you annoying/unfair/insulting questions. Maintain calm at all times. Answer factually. Prepare all your evidence in advance and file it properly. Take it all with you in person too and have electronic copies easily accessible that you can email to the court if they ask.

If you are in front of magistrates and not a judge, it looks a little different.

There will be 2 or 3 magistrates with a legal advisor who supports the magistrates but they will also direct you regarding when to speak etc.
The legal adviser may come to speak to you before you go in front of the magistrates to check your position and that you know what's going to happen next.