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Cease and Desist

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Toooldforthisbollocks · 08/06/2025 08:05

Has anybody sent a cease and desist letter regarding defamation and did it have the outcome you hoped for?
I don’t want to go into too much detail as it could be outing.
I will just say that I am in an intolerable situation with a person, who has now recruited their (very new) friends to assist them.
These others have taken the original person’s completely false story about me as truth with no attempt to verify.
They are now approaching my family members and neighbours to spread the original person’s lies in an attempt to isolate me and are asking for any “dirt” which they can use against me.
Police are aware and monitoring but in the meanwhile I am considering civil action.

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Shouldbedoing · 08/06/2025 16:07

Without further details, I'd say they wouldn't stop for a private intervention if they are unafraid of the Police

PositiveLife · 11/06/2025 20:21

I sent one. Didn't stop it and when I reiterated she was breaching it, she ranted to everyone that I was threatening her with solicitors Hmm

Velmy · 12/06/2025 21:07

There's a close to zero percent chance that a random person has plucked a completely fabricated lie about you out of thin air, for no reason, which a number of other random strangers are so convinced of, that it's given them the confidence to approach a complete stranger's family to request 'dirt' on this person.

There's obviously a ginormous back story to this around who these people are, what they're saying about you and why they're saying it, and if you can't/won't share any of it, you're not going to get any useful advice.

If they are completely rational, reasonable people who are genuinely mistaken or have received incorrect information about you, proof to the contrary from a legal firm, plus mention of your intention to sue, may indeed satisfy them that they're in the wrong and need to step back.

If you've somehow wronged this person and they've decided you're now their mortal enemy as a result, a legal letter will likely be seen as simply another shot across the bow in your ongoing feud.

If they're a nutcase who has infact completely fabricated a random lie about a complete stranger, they won't care if they letter is from you, your solicitor or Queen Elizabeth's ghost.

Threatening to sue someone when you don't have the means/intention to follow up on it could work, or it could backfire spectacularly - you'll have a better idea than anyone else here which it's likely to be OP.

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