Hi All,
To set the scene, my mother and her cousin looked after an Aunt for a number of years (cooking, cleaning, personal care, admin, daily visits etc). They did it solely because they adored this person.
The Aunt had money and they were aware distant family members benefitted whilst she was alive (she would send them cheques for large sums of money, reimburse them travel costs for visits etc).
My mother and cousin knew these other family members were named in the will but didn’t expect to be named in the will themselves and they were absolutely fine with this. They did all the care because they loved her.
Howevr, a few months after their Aunt’s death it was mentioned by one of the named relatives (and executor) that they had been named but there wasn’t enough money and they’d be lucky to get £5. They briefly stated the money was “pro rata’d” but wouldn’t elaborate and hasn’t spoken to them since.
Mum’s cousin wanted to see the will so I’ve downloaded it and it shows the amount available was £250k, £30k short of paying everyone named in full. Yet they haven’t seen a penny. Sadly, a brother is also named who the executor knew was terminally ill at Christmas and never told. That person has since died. He would have appreciated just knowing that she’d thought of him.
When the estate is short of the full amount, how should an executor decide how much everyone should get? Mum and Aunt should have had £20k each.If they are owed anything, what should happen to the amount meant for the brother?
Also, are taxes paid after the grant? I.e. is the amount listed in the grant before or after tax?
Mum is fairly shaken by the thought that the executors may have been trying to pull a fast one, but also isn’t and doesn’t want to look money grabbing.