I don't know what to do, I was hoping for somebody on here who might have experience of a similar situation.
DH and me have been renting for years (although we did own a house previously, made some silly decisions, like going into rented ''for a while' - it's been years now and the market left us behind). We are coming up to retirement age so it would not be possible to take out a new mortgage. We have managed to save quite a lot over the last few years, have received pension lump sums, and most importantly, DH received a good-sized inheritance from his family who live abroad. He received this money in 2022,we kept it in the bank and we continued to save, and thought this year was the right time to buy. The inheritance is over 60% of the property value.
Now we've had an offer accepted on a house. Someone recommended me a conveyancing solicitor, he works online and though he is local, his company is based in another area, they have solicitors all round the UK. He seemed friendly etc. The solicitor sent me some forms through to complete and one of them was asking the source of our funds. I messaged him that some of our funds were from family abroad and he seemed very phased and concerned by this. He has asked for a shed load of information, says he will have to check with his company's çompliance team IF he can still act for us.
I do understand that solicitors have to comply with money laundering regulations, but this has really worried me. Seems he is inexperienced in dealing with overseas stuff. I heard that many legal companies don't like to? Yet it is all legit, we have all the legal documents and probate etc from my late FIL's will. I thought it would not be a big deal, as the money has been with us nearly 3 years now, and I had heard it is only money just received they are really bothered by, perhaps this was incorrect?
I have lost confidence in this solicitor, I am guessing that maybe his firm is just a conveyancing factory. But what sort of solicitor should I be looking for and how on earth do I go about it, I just want them to take care of it all for us. DH's remaining family abroad including his brother who was the executor are happy to help.
How do I find a decent solicitor who can deal with this? Anybody know?