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Jury service

34 replies

Rach7291 · 14/04/2025 18:19

This is going to sound a bit silly. My partner has jury service in a few weeks. He already deferred it because I have postnatal depression and was really struggling. I am still struggling just as much, if not worse. We are both very concerned now that this is going to make our situation worse. My mental health is awful and i really do rely on him heavily to help and support me with our baby. I’m assuming there is no way of him being excused based on this? I’m getting very stressed about it all

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ElinoristhenewEnid · 15/04/2025 16:40

I was excused when my dh was ill. Phoned up and told them, did not want any proof and sent me a letter confirming I was excused. Seven years ago and have never heard from them since.

JenniferBooth · 15/04/2025 16:48

peppermintcrumble · 15/04/2025 16:19

Surprised he was excused, as I didn’t think they allowed this as a reason.

My therapist says he knows therapists who haven’t been excused despite the potential impact on their clients.

Doing your so called civic duty should not leave ppl out of pocket or struggling

peppermintcrumble · 15/04/2025 17:02

JenniferBooth · 15/04/2025 16:48

Doing your so called civic duty should not leave ppl out of pocket or struggling

I don’t disagree, but the reality is that it sometimes does!

CarpetKnees · 15/04/2025 17:08

Why won't he be home until 7pm ?

Postsurgery · 15/04/2025 17:08

When I was called recently I was very honest with them that I have autism and I just didn’t want to do it. They were absolutely fine about it. Very understanding. I think if your dh calls them and explains then they will understand you are still recovering and need him at home.

aspidernamedfluffy · 15/04/2025 17:22

CarpetKnees · 15/04/2025 17:08

Why won't he be home until 7pm ?

Distance maybe? Our nearest Crown Court is a 4 hour round trip on a good day.

Rach7291 · 15/04/2025 18:08

@peppermintcrumble he wasn’t excused because of my mental health. The first time he was called was the week my csection was booked for

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Rach7291 · 15/04/2025 18:09

@CarpetKneeswe live quite far away from the court

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CosyNavyLeader · 15/04/2025 21:26

JenniferBooth · 15/04/2025 16:48

Doing your so called civic duty should not leave ppl out of pocket or struggling

In fairness it wasn't long after COVID lockdown. So maybe that gave us some leeway.

But nope. No way he was taking the time off work with the pitiful allowance they offered.

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