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Weird school yard behaviour

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Shabanimother · 11/04/2025 05:38

There's been an incident at my son's school. I'm absolutely disgusted by the behaviour of a child he's pulled a little child down then pulled down the poor boys pants and licked his bum cheek. This child is on the spectrum and has additional needs ,I do understand that all children are different and I don't know what kind of home he's from but I am really angry and annoyed that this is happening. I have spoken with the head and she has palmed me off. My own son got suspended from the same school for an afternoon ( 1 period,1 lesson not worth the paperwork in my opinion) this was for laughing and pushing in the queue and yet there's a child doing such horrible things in the play yard . I don't know what has worked me up more the bum licking child or the fact school think it's ok for this to be excused. I'm also concerned about the child who actually committed the offence as it's bizarre behaviour.

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Thunderpants88 · 11/04/2025 05:41

This sounds extremely worrying and weird

you do sound bitter about your own sons punishment so check that first

Also, if you child wasn’t involved then it really has nothing to do with you. If it did involve your child Email the head and CC in the local board of governors and then they should respond

Shabanimother · 11/04/2025 06:04

I'm not bitter I'm concerned about child safety in school.

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taylorsdoingapart · 11/04/2025 06:11

If it didn't involve your child then the head won't tell you anything.

AlisounOfBath · 11/04/2025 06:26

Unless something happens to your kid, there is absolutely nothing you can do. You don’t actually know what the school is or isn’t doing regarding the bum licker so this is a case of minding your own business, I’m afraid.

Shabanimother · 11/04/2025 14:31

My son didn't speak up for the poor child who was pushed to the floor,which he has been great friends with. I spoke with him about this and he understands that he was wrong. I just can't understand why the lunch time staff are not supervising . Maybe I need to volunteer to supervise as they need more staff?

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Shabanimother · 11/04/2025 14:33

Thanks for the sound advice ladies 😊

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