I hope that this is the right place to post this. My DS's ex wife, following a bitter separation, is with a new partner, and the two of them are doing everything they can to create chaos in his life. He has just discovered that the new partner, who works in the same bank that DS uses, has been illegally accessing his accounts and his personal information. He has definite proof. DS obviously has begun proceedings to have his accounts audited, to go further with the matter, but the ex-wife has always hated both my DH and me, for no reason that I can fathom, and will likely have encouraged him to snoop into our affairs. Can I request an audit, despite no evidence? Or will they laugh us out of the doors? We're all pretty shaken by the betrayal by DS' ex.