Hi there - received my ex’s witness statement earlier today for our upcoming final CAO hearing and it contains no exhibits whatsoever. Is this unusual?
In contrast, I’m due to write my response witness statement in 3 weeks time and have already lined up several exhibits to include with help from my solicitor. In a nutshell, my ex wants to vary our current CAO (EOW & half school hols) to have 50-50 shared care. However, he’s barely able to manage his current time with the kids and regularly cancels contact with them, leaving them in my care. He wouldn’t be able to cope with 50-50. I have numerous text-messages from him about these cancellations and will include a sample of them as exhibits for my statement. Due to his inconsistency, the kids often don’t always want to have contact with him (although I make them go - he’d accuse me of parental alienation otherwise 🙄) and so the idea of going 50-50 would be terrible for them. He’s also abusive towards me in his messages and it is impossible to Co-parent effectively with him because he’s always wanting a fight. I’ve got these messages lined up as exhibits as well.