My husband of 15 years is a functional alcoholic. He’s excellent at work and everyone loves him. At home, he’s useless as a husband and a dad. He works late hours, usually finishing work around 11pm but doesn’t come home until 3am, sometimes 5am. He spends the time drinking and chatting to his mates on the phone. Then he sleeps until it’s time to go to work. On his days off also he goes out and gets drunk. He’s addicted to his phone and alcohol. Doesn’t help me with anything. I work 34 hours a week and do all the housework. We have two kids, I drop them at schools and collect them too. He’s supposed to do the school runs with our youngest just one day a week but most of the time he doesn’t even do that because he’s too drunk and sleeps till late. I have to do the school run and go to work late. If it weren’t for my immediate manager being a very kind woman, I would have lost my job. Some nights he go out with his mates and doesn’t come home. I had enough of him and asked him to move out but he doesn’t want to go. We’re renting from a private landlord. I told him that I don’t want a penny from him. I can look after the kids. What should I do?