Thoughts please. Some background- I had a very messy divorce from my controlling first husband he was older and pretty sure he is a narcissist. Had to get a family court order in place as he dictated to me when I would see my children and still tried to control me. 1st court order in place with a 2 week pattern that was 70/30 split in my favour this was back in 2013. He has been a a nightmare to coparent with, he basically does not co parent at all. During Covid moved to week in week off and then had the court order updated to show week on week off. Now since September last year my youngest daughter has not wanted to go to his for her own reasons and has stayed with us. She has been to visit her dad after school or meet up with him at the weekend but does not want to live with hi m any more, she is 14. Our so. Was happy to carry in going back and forwards then in October 1/2 term decided he wanted to stay at his dads ( dad has bought him a moped) he is 17. I am happy out children make up on choices on how they want to live and everything has been fine.
I have asked my ex husband that we aply to the family court tot have our curt order discharged seeing as it is not being followed. I finally received a response from my ex husband saying he does not agree to this and that he does not give permission to me to give his email or phone number to a third party to start the process of having the court order discharged. Am I being. I reasonable for wanting to get this legal document discharged as neither of us are following it since September last year.
thoughts please, thank you