Hi all. Need a little bit of advice here. Daughter 7, does not want to see dad (only temporarily) as she is upset that he has not seen her for a while. She refused to after so much encouragement and I had not choice to let dad know. Dad has not yet responded, but asked his mum to call our daughter to ask her why. I did not find this ok, however asked our daughter if she wants to speak and she refused. I also messaged dad to give him some advice that he can try to perhaps encourage her to see him, suggested that she is sentimental and likes letters etc. He has not yet read it. We have a contact order but he has never followed it properly. Our daughter has SEN and is also waiting to be assessed for ADHD & Autism. I have mentioned this to him few months back but he said he does not agree with it and does not support it. She suffers from anxiety and I am running out of ideas. I am trying my best to validated her feelings but also worried that I will be in breach of the order we have in place. Any advice will be appreciated.