A bit of a quick background . Me and my ex have a 4year old daughter together and I have a 2yr old daughter with my current partner . In the past my ex has been physically and emotionally abusive towards me before my daughter was born . I had to go into a residential unit from the court to fight for my daughter to be in my care and I had broken up with him and started to move on with life with me and my daughter and then had met my current partner and had a daughter with him . My ex was only asking about his daughter when it came to Christmas and birthdays and hasn’t bothered all throughout the years so I started to ignore him as realised it was wrong and unfair on my daughter. I had recently messaged him a few weeks ago to ask if I could borrow any money as was short on money and just thought he hasn’t paid his way for his daughter at all so just thought I’d ask & of course he says he hasn’t got any money but said he’ll ask his nan or mum and I spoke about my daughter to say that she’s diagnosed with autism etc stuff about her and agreeing for him too see her when he had asked . His girlfriend then went to message my partner too say me and him are meeting in “that way” and speaking too eachother which then made me not want to meet him as couldn’t be asked for the drama!
Everyday from then he kept messaging too ask how my daughter is , I have been ignoring . He had then got annoyed and messaged my partner to say that I had sexual intercourse with him whilst pregnant with my partners daughter which had never happened. He messaged me to say he had told my partner this and then says fck being nice , I can be worse , let me see my daughter , your a compulsive liar , just playing victim . His girlfriend then sent my partner a screenshot of me messaging my ex in 2021 when I was pregnant with my youngest saying “we’re never getting back together init 😒” I had said to my partner if I’m honest I don’t actually remember that message” and he says well at the time you knew you were pregnant , was you gonna abort my child or raise it with that man . Yes I know that message isn’t right , this was a year into my new relationship that message and I had gotten with my current partner 1 month after my ex. At this point my head is all over the place as I really really do not like my ex tbh and have his girlfriend messaging me calling me a slag and a tramp and all sorts of things and was thinking to just get a non molestation order on my ex but have been worried because my current partner is saying to me because of all of that and what your saying to him they are not going to grant it ?
What do you guys think and please be kind I’m really really lost and stressed 💔
honestly don’t know what I should do at this point of time