My daughter “lives with” me and “spends time” with her Father under court order. He had court ordered no contact for considerable time due to violent, aggressive behaviour but this has, somewhat successfully increased overtime, Father tried to increase contact time last year and the. Court using all evidence rejected this. I always make the children available for their contact time, he most turns up (missed Fathers Day due to watching Euros football match) basically what I am saying is for the first time in years contact is fairly smooth and most importantly the child is in a firm routine.
I have recently found out that a family member has just been released on bail, this person lives with my child’s grandmother (an individual who provides a lot of their care including frequent overnights wot this person present during fathers court allocated time) I do not have a choice about the child minders he chooses under strict court order so please no commentary on this. My question is …… the bail was considerable, £10k, I don’t know what the crime was, others involved or potential repercussions. Should I be concerned that the child is in the company of this person so often and worry or just let it go?