My mother died just over a year ago. Dad 76 met F(81) on a holiday. Just over a week later he drove 4 hours to Liverpool picked her up and she moved in to live with him. I'd never met her. She owns two terraced houses in her home town in a rough area she lives in one of them, a son/his family lives in another. Dad lives in a lovely rural village in a detached bungalow. Within 3 weeks of her moving in he informed me she wants half the value of his house leaving to her in his will and the right to remain living in his bungalow until she dies, if he passes away first. She will then leave her two homes to both her sons. She also wants to be named on his house deeds. I have only met her twice since she moved in and I don't want anything to do with her, i just didn't take to her at all, perhaps also becasue he informed me she was using my deceased mother's perfumes and things that had been left on the dressing table, which broke my heart. Dad is besotted and regularly goes down to her home, paying for petrol every time, to see her family. He is also paying all the bills in his home for the two of them, she pays nothing towards utilities. She has been here about 2 months now and he is constantly trying to force her onto me, twice turning up at my home unannounced. I was civil but no more. Prior to her sudden arrival we were extremely close, but not now. I have not been to his home since she arrived. My mum said she thought he was starting with dementia about 18 months before she died. obviously this woman isn't aware of this. I have tried to tell him he needs to be very careful and suggested that if he is leaving her half his home, she should be doing the same, but he just gets very agressive with me and tells me I should be happy for him. I have even stopped ringing him now as everytime I did so, it had to be on speaker phone so I could not speak to him in private. He has started ringing me when she goes out, but I am treading on eggshells about what I say. I feel so helpless, he says he is happy, but why the need or all this financial talk so soon (3 weeks) into their relationship unless she is a gold digger. He says her family make him welcome in Liverpool, but they willd do - they stand to inheritate indirectly a great deal of money. I honestly don't know what to do, expect stand back and hope 😓 I miss my mother so much and wish I could talk to her.