I have a friend who lives some distance away, so we mostly talk on the phone.
She and her ex DP bought a house together, as joint tenants. He put in slightly more money than she did.
He was abusive, and after violent and threatening incidents, was bailed away from the house until it was decided there was insufficient evidence to prosecute and the bail conditions lapsed.
He rented somewhere else but has since visited the house a few times, with others, which she finds intimidating, but as they jointly own the property, what remedy has she got, to keep him from doing this?
She is considering changing the locks, not so much to deny him access but to control when and with whom he visits the house.
She has been advised by a law firm that obtaining a non molestation order will cost her around 30K, which will be taken from her share of the house sale.
I was under the impression that capital from a house sale could be ring fenced to enable someone to purchase another property? And this wouldn't affect benefit claims or Legal Aid?
She is self employed and her earnings are variable and not large. I believe she is on some benefits as well. There are no children in this relationship.
She is receiving conflicting advice from the various agencies in her area, which is confusing both her and me.
There seems to be no definitive information available to her that will once and for all settle what she can do to protect herself and her money.
It is very difficult to help or advise my friend, as it all seems such a mess.
Any advice gratefully received.