I would appreciate some advice as my dh and I are tying ourselves in circles trying to get this straight before heading to the solicitors as we can't afford hours talking it through with them.
Fairly modern situation I think. I'm sorry for the essay.b
I have 3 children from previous marriage (their dad is deceased)
Current dh has no biological children and sees mine as his so wants to leave everything to them
We own a property with mortgage as joint tenants. We both have separate life insurance to pay off entire mortgage upon our death.
We have seen other members of family lose out to inheritance due to future marriage so I want to ring-fence my half of the house so only my children get it should he remarry. We would both want the other to stay in the house till death or they choose to sell, but would expect that sale to trigger my kids getting their bit. Or do we?
This is where we get confused. Do I put my half in trust or do we need to transfer to tenants in common. Also how do I stop my children from selling it when he is still living.
Basically we both want to leave whatever we have to the same 3 children. I don't want my kids to lose out to a future stepmums children and he doesn't want to end up in a bedsit If I die tomorrow.
I'd appreciate any advice from anyone who does this with their eyes closed.
Thanks so much.