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Locating a will after someone with no family dies suddenly

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locomotive98 · 23/02/2024 18:07

My remaining family and friends are all older than me, meaning that there is the possibility that I'll be living solo with no close social network in my later years. Add to that a family history of dying suddenly due to heart problems, and I find myself worrying about what happens in this situation. I have had a will drafted and appointed a firm of solicitors as my executors, but what happens if my will isn't found? I have a printed copy in my house, but there's no guarantee that it will be found, and it won't necessarily be obvious who my solicitor is or whether I have made a will at all (although I keep the firm's name and number in my purse). I'm just wondering what others do in this situation to ensure that their affairs are dealt with promptly and correctly when the time comes?

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thesandwich · 23/02/2024 18:08

Can you leave all key info in a red folder in a v obvious place?

Hadalifeonce · 23/02/2024 18:10

We recently made a new will, and we're advised that there is some kind of online filing of wills, so if friends/relatives of the deceased don't if they have a will, they can search by name.

Vaz66 · 23/02/2024 18:28

You can register your will online but obviously people would have to know there is actually a will register in the first place.

TressiliansStone · 23/02/2024 18:35

I'm in a similar situation, and I have a big note stuck on my kitchen noticeboard saying approx "IN EVENT OF MY DEATH folder with solicitor's information and necessary contacts is in third drawer of bureau."

The folder is not in the same room as the public notice, to avoid curious friends, tradesfolk or delivery people having a good ol' nose then and there.

locomotive98 · 23/02/2024 18:47

Thanks all. @TressiliansStone , I was considering something along those lines, although I've not done it so far as I don't want a constant reminder of my mortality in plain sight! Perhaps I will call it 'Emergency Info' or similar.

Regarding the online register, I don't think my solicitors are signed up to that. When I asked them about what to do they just said that the Police are very good at finding things in those circumstances and not to worry about it.

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YetMoreNewBeginnings · 23/02/2024 18:52

Your other option is to let the people or charity you’ve left your estate to know.

The best friend of my step-son’s late mum has let it be known to him/us that he is her beneficiary and who her solicitor is.

locomotive98 · 23/02/2024 19:02

Thanks @YetMoreNewBeginnings , yes mine is all going to charity. I'm not sure how they would find out though, unless the solicitor were to inform them. Maybe I just need to make sure my Solicitor is my emergency contact and have that in my purse and pinned up somewhere, although I wouldn't want them called if I just fainted in the street, of course...

I might ask Age UK for advice and will update this thread if I pick up anything useful.

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pastypirate · 23/02/2024 19:07

There is a registry of wills across legal firms don't worry. I've just dealt with dm estate and my solicitor told me all about it and was obliged to check it to ensure we were using the most up to date will.

ohtowinthelottery · 23/02/2024 19:25

Our copy wills are in our filing cabinet filed under 'Wills'. I'm pretty sure anyone who had to look for paperwork would find it. The solicitors' correspondence from when we did the wills is also there.

Cotswoldbee · 23/02/2024 19:54

My father's will was lodged with the probate office and after a while, searches identified it's existence.
The odd thing was that (I thought) everyone in the family knew it was there so I never mentioned it, I was not aware that the solicitor was struggling to trace it and if asked, I could have told him.
We were just told there was a delay with probate but I think our solicitor was just covering his general lack of progress.

Our own wills are in our fire-safe at home, both executors have been told this and given specific information about it's location.

Propertylover · 23/02/2024 21:23

@locomotive98 There is a message in the fridge scheme. https://www.informationnow.org.uk/article/bottle-in-the-fridge-emergency-information-scheme/#

Essentially you have a sticker saying you have important info in the fridge. You can put anything in there but usually details of medicines, emergency contacts and there is no reason you can’t include the location of your will/name of solicitors as well as your life book and the password to your PC/electronic data etc.

The other thing you can complete is the AgeUK life book or make up your own https://www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/money-legal/end-of-life-planning/lifebook/

Bottle in the Fridge - emergency information scheme - Information Now

The Message in a Bottle scheme helps you store your personal and medical information in your fridge door, so it can found quickly by emergency services. This simple idea could help to save your life. The little green bottle means […]

https://www.informationnow.org.uk/article/bottle-in-the-fridge-emergency-information-scheme/#

TressiliansStone · 24/02/2024 09:57

Ooh, that's good, @Propertylover . I shall see about getting one of those.

locomotive98 · 24/02/2024 10:35

Thanks all. @Propertylover , that looks like a good idea. I have downloaded the AgeUK Life Book. Keeping things in the fridge in case of fire is also a good tip.

As regards electronic data, you can set up a Google account so that it will be deactivated at a certain point, and I think the same must be true for Microsoft. They will contact you if the account isn't active and you can choose the amount of time they will wait before deactivating. I don't want to keep the password to my PC in an obvious place. So much of our lives are on our devices these days, not all of which I would want anyone to have access to, so it's more about securing them, and making sure the information needed is available on paper.

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Propertylover · 24/02/2024 10:35

@TressiliansStone its the sort of thing you get told about when you are 60+😂

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