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Claim on ex husband

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almostspring2024 · 23/02/2024 13:24

I've changed user name for this question as expecting some hate. It's not something I'm planning to do probably and there is so much back story. Would really appreciate legal answers rather than moral judgements
Exh and I owned a house and he left me and our two children about 20 years ago, for a few years he financially supported the children and saw them regularly. He then wanted to take out a new mortgage with OW but needed a large loan. So he put to me that if I took out a loan in his name ( he had bad credit and a gambling problem) he would sign the house over to me, I would then take out my own mortgage. This we did and it all went through solicitors/ conveyancers as usual. I took out a bank loan which I paid off over the next ten years or so.
So I owned my house and supported the children. Ex was with OW in their own house with their new mortgage. Around 10 years ago he'd split from OW plus a couple more but wanted to get married again so we divorced. We didn't use solicitors, he paid for it and I just signed to agree. By then he had no contact with me or our adult children, we owned no shared property.
So there was no financial order made. Neither of us were high earners and had tiny pensions. Anyway, he got remarried, I didn't.
Obviously life was happening through the last 20 years but that would be another story. The next ten years were filled with lots of hard work, lots of laughter and then lots of sadness.
Ex has behaved v v badly following this latest relationship and has not had contact with our adult DD or GS in 10 years, he is now ( according to a text he sent DD) terminally ill but still refuses to see DD though she has begged him. He inherited from his parents a few years ago and him and new wife have bought a property as tenants in common, I checked on land registry, before they were renting I believe
My legal question is would I have grounds to make a claim on his estate once he had died as I have never remarried? I think it very unlikely he will leave anything to DD in his will

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JacobElordisBathWater · 23/02/2024 13:29

No.

You’re divorced and are no longer legally connected.

His children might be able to make a claim. Is there likely to be a will?

Whycantiwinmillionsandsquillions · 23/02/2024 13:31

I agree with the above poster.

Soontobe60 · 23/02/2024 13:32

You know a lot about your ex considering he has no contact.

prh47bridge · 23/02/2024 14:42

The first two posts on this thread are wrong. You have a claim under the Inheritance Act as a former spouse who has not remarried. That does not mean you will get anything, but you are entitled to make a claim given that there has been no financial settlement.

Your daughter would also be entitled to make a claim, although it is unlikely she would get anything unless she is in serious financial difficulties.

almostspring2024 · 23/02/2024 19:10

prh47bridge Thank you.

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