Husband and I are executors of his Fathers will (so my father in law), and sadly he passed so our duties switched from POA to executors.
There is no property, or probate it literally a few £K's to be split between 6 beneficiaries (husbands siblings). The funeral was fraught with regards to arrangements and all the siblings have accepted what is due to them except one.
One of them has asked for a copy of the will and the estate accounts. We have provided a copy of the will and an excel sheet breakdown of estate debts (which is rent, funeral costs) and a credit (refund on a utility) which gives a total of £15500 (not true figures).
I've also supplied a letter from father in laws bank which states £16K was in the account when his accounts were closed. On the excel sheet you can see a deduction of £500 for rent (again figures are not true).
So my question is we do have bank details for the sibling do we just pay the money or do we hold on to it until they are happy with accounts?
If they request more information what else can I provide (bank statements are tricky as personal 3rd party information on there so GDPR breach)
Or do I tell them to apply to the UK courts?
I just wish for hubby to grieve and these family politics to end - many thanks