Court order in place stating all holidays to be split and for half terms tack onto contact weekends. I assume this means whomever normal contact weekend starts the holiday.
October half term ex requested DC from the Thursday - Sunday (even though his weekend was the one before) this wouldn’t be the first time he has deviated from the order so I was fine with this. Until ex calls me up one the Friday of school breaking up saying he was meant to have DC that weekend and the Thursday - Sunday the weekend after. Didn’t help that that this was the first time we have agreed contact verbally. Ex insisted that he was to have her both weekends as first weekend would have been his weekend, I pointed out that if that were the case that I should have had DC the following weekend (as it would have been mine) and that hand overs should have taken place on the Wednesday in the middle of the week. Initially ex agreed it was a misunderstanding and moving forwards we should always document which was fine.
Now he is trying the say I have breached the order as the first weekend was his and the second was as he stated in lieu of Monday - Wednesday and that I need to make up those two nights and it has to be on one of my weekends. I have highlight to him that I believe this is due to an annual leave issue on his end, he has also asked for something similar over Christmas. His response is that we should be flexible to each others schedules.
he has said he won’t take it to court this time but will be recording it. Thing is there are issues surrounding DCs health that I think at some point we will return to court and wondered how this would look. It’s worth noting in the 2 1/2 yrs since this order was made I’ve not breached and have gone out of my way to ensure contact happens even when ex has missed his weekend (as in he has forgot on the day) and I’ve swapped my original weekend so dc can see their dad