Hi - I'm going through a pretty acrimonious financial settlement and divorce. I signed a ST agreement with my solicitor believing that the property I co-own with my ex husband would be sold and therefore legal costs will be paid then. However, it's complicated by the fact the house is in France, it's not looking likely to get sold quickly, and even if a judge orders it to be sold, ex is unlikely to comply and not sure that family court has particular jurisdiction overseas. Additionally, not sure that what is left in the house capital wise would even cover my bills.
My ex had originally threatened to pursue me for spousal maintenance, claim half my pension etc. I had a major mental breakdown in March this year because of continued harrassment and bullying from ex and have quit the high paid job I was doing, and currently working in a minimum wage job.
Recently he has calmed down a fair bit, and has proposed a deal whereby he keeps the house and agrees to not pursue me for future income and pension.
This would be a great option for me, but doesn't address the solicitors bill which is around 40k by now.
I am planning on trying to arrange an IVA to cover the debt with the solicitor, but not sure if I will be in deep water for breaching the ST agreement? Anyone got any experience of this?
Thanks!