Hello, I’m 33 weeks pregnant. My long term ex (we separated 6 years ago) for context he was violent, abusive, narc , sex addict beat me down so much during our relationship. He owed me a substantial sum of money so I had to keep talking to him until about 3 years ago when I got the majority back. I’ve maintained being civil with occasion messages because he’s very stressful to deal with. He Had a big downfall from Grace after being very publicly successful and now living in council accommodation.
anyway my career is now very public and he could perceive that I’m doing very well. He has always been possessive and jealous / despite having two children since we separated with a Woman he cheated on me with. The last six months he’s somehow found out I’m in a relationship and has sent me emails / whatsap and texts blackmailing me for large sums of money, threatening to expose naked pictures of me. Has contacted my partner twice and sent a sexual harassment malicious email in to my partners place of work.
All of the above was reported to the police and the crown prosecution service deemed there not to be enough evidence to prosecute despite 30 screen shots of all of the above. My one reply was me asking him to leave me alone.
he was questioned by police during this process in relation to harassment and stalking of me. He told police he didn’t have a phone and didn’t bring it with him as he was pre warned about his interview.
his latest move is to set up an anon Instagram account and detail some true and untrue but totally private details of our sex life to my partner. Which was very painful for us both.
police are still not helping and I’m worried what he will do next. I had even shown old messages to the police where I had put in writing his verbal threats to kill me and photos of injuries he had given during violent spells.
what else can I do? He knows where I live, I have no idea where he lives. How can pages of evidence - when the law says only two required - not quantify as being enough? He also doesn’t know I’m having a baby and if he ever found this out would be even worse. I’m even considering moving to a new house and area but despite this he knows where I work.
the justice system seems to be so bad in this country.