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[Strugglingmum2]

My ex took my son by invoking her pr rights, im having to rep myself in court, as everyone i have been to wants £1000 up front, SS have given my ex all their paper work yet im unable to get anything, i was even given the wrong paper work where my ex has filed a c100, SS have stated there is no concern around me as a mum, and told me to file my own c100 the hearing was monday just gone and ss didnt even turn up to court, im not elibale to claim legal aid, and have had no contact with my children since the 6th july, ss refusing to return my calls, his solicitor refusing to engage with me and unwilling to return my emails or my calls and my MP has now turned round to me and said there is nothing more they can assist me with as he isnt get a response, i am very worried about the children, and even my ex will not return calls or messages to me, they wouldnt even let me take him to his medical appointment which i have fought for a year to get. Please someone help me

Where is your DS living at present? With other parent? Presumably someone took him to his medical appointment, or are you trying to say he did not attend?

Also, and sorry to be nosey, what led to DS being removed from your care at the start of this month? This won't have come out of nowhere.

Hi so abit of back ground my ex partner transitioned from male to female, we spilt up over 14yrs ago, when i got with a new partner my new partner stated to them that it should be equal running around and as the childrens father would pay maintance the partner i was with stated that they needed to start paying, as that was the right thing to do, they quickly started to work negativly towards us and started working on the children that if they went to live with her and her partner they would get all the things they wanted, evrrytime we said no to the children from then on the behaviour started to get uncontrolable to the point my daughter started to hit me and kick me, and then go running to her dad saying id hit them and kicked them, SS got involved and stated that this was untrue, and then my daughter went to live over there, i supported her on this even tho it broke my heart, then last year my son started the same but this time i said no not happeing as my dd stated she wanted to come back home but then wouldnt move back she then started self harming but when i went to pick her up she had gone out with friends and didnt want to come, my son then had my current partner aressted under false allegation and then i took my ds to school that morning only to have a phone call from the school to say that Adam had been removed under pr right by his dad and i have not been able to contact my ex or the children since, i took them to court only to be told that as SS had not turned up the court hearing could not go forward. I have no contact from SS or my ex and his solicitor since. I full supported the childrens dad in her transitioning.

Whilst we where co parenting if i asked for the children in the holidays or ask for the children abit eariler due to work i was told i was being unreasonable. All alligations against the childrens step dad have been found to be untrue, the childrens father refuses to call me mum to the children and will tell the children that they are ignor me and tell them that i am to be called by my first name.