Hi, a application was made c100 as threats were made in a silly argument about stopping contact with the children, so the application was made, the contact was not stopped so it was just a threat and when calmed down was more rational. Both parents spoke and are in agreement with the arrangements for each parent to see the children, so another application was made on a c2 to withdraw the c100, because they are starting to work together again and are in agreement on what is best for the children and don't want to unnecessarily go through the courts, this all happened within about a weeks time frame. Have heard nothing from courts wether the withdrawal is granted or not, but had welcome email from cafcass and to set up egress to be able to communicate with them so I think the withdrawal is not accepted can we be forced to now go through courts even though both parents do not want to and would prefer to have the informal arrangement. The father wants to just ignore all communication with cafcass and if a date is set for a hearing to Just not go, I am not in agreement with this as I am scared will get into trouble or will be seen as not caring about the kids etc but at the same time would prefer to carry on the informal arrangement, I do not know what to do next, what would actually happen if both parties did not engage in the court process