Hi all,
I have a PSO in place with kids and ex as there was issues with substance misuse and neglect. The PSO states any contact needs to be organised in writing beforehand and supervised. The kids see their dad Sundays for a few hours supervised by his sister or dad.
There has been an issue with him turning up at our son's football tournament a few weeks ago. There was prior warning to me by his sister, but as he has been reported to the police by me several times for abusive text messages (community resolution order in place) I told her I felt very uncomfortable. She said she would pass concerns on and her dad would be there. Well he stayed about 30 mins and then left. My ex then started to approach us so to save any confrontation (I didn't see him walking up to us) my partner told my son to go and say hi to his dad.
Yesterday he just turned up at our son's football presentation, no warning, we had no idea. Rang police who have put it down to domestic for intimidating behaviour so speaking with them later.
My daughter came back from contact with him yesterday and said that she, her brother and their 2 cousins went for a dog walk with my ex and his partner, no other adult present, so not his sister or father who I agreed to intially via solicitor (they were at family birthday party). She said they were out for 30 mins or so. I have no idea who his partner is. I'm sure she's lovely and all, but wouldn't he now be in breech of the PSO? If so, what are my next steps? I have no solicitor as could not afford the fees any longer.