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Homelessness and exclusion criteria

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Omelette1 · 14/05/2023 20:20

I've recently been lucky enough to secure a council house due to domestic abuse from my Husband. The property should be ready for me to move in to in June.

Many people may think "who cares" but I'm concerned regarding whether my Husband will end up on the streets. We privately rent, but the landlord has recently informed us he wants to increase the rent substantially, and if we dont agree he will issue us with a section 21 as he will be forced to sell the house. We cannot afford this increase in rent.

Obviously when I leave in June, my Husband will be worse off financially and unable to afford the increase. We do have a joint application open for council housing. (I made a separate individual application for the house I have been given, due to it being domestic abuse) he will have to issue a change of circumstances to the register so that the application is in his name only.

However reading the criteria, there is a part that says anti social behaviour (including domestic violence) can be a cause for an individual to be removed from the register.

He has a progressive medical condition (won't say what as it is outing) that affects his mental health and is on full disability benefits due to this.

So in summary- if he can't afford a rent increase, is issued a section 21 and stays until he is removed by court order - therefore any new private landlord won't touch him - they also may not want to take him on due to being on full disability benefits - and the council exclude him from their register due to his "anti social" behaviour of being emotionally abusive to me, will he be out on the streets?

Surely that's not the case. Any advice welcome. I know I shouldn't care but I do, so I know what is likely to happen moving forwards.

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LittleHare · 14/05/2023 20:59

Does he domestically abuse his boss, workmates, friends, family? No? If that's the case then mental health condition or not, it shows he is fully capable of not abusing you either.

You are extremely lucky to have been offered a house. This is your sanctuary, a gateway to your new life. Please, please do not mess it up by feeling sorry for what is I hope your stbx.

He has got himself into this situation all by himself. Let him sort himself out. You are not his mother. He is responsible for himself. Caring about him or not , just step away from him and live your life. Safely. Happily. Without fear.

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