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Recovering money from an ex

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Njb86 · 27/04/2023 10:21

Hi,

I'm hoping someone could help with some advice on whether or not I can pursue ny ex partner for money I feel I'm owed.

Myself and my ex became engaged at the beginning of lockdown and moved into her apartment. I paid her half towards her mortgage and utilities etc which amounted to around £4500. After a year or so we decided to buy a house together and it was placed solely in my name so we could avoid stamp duty costs owing to her already being a home owner. Our agreement was that she would continue to cover the costs of her own apartment and I would cover the significantly higher outgoings on the new house until she had sold her own apartment.

9 months after moving into the new home we split up and her apartment still hadn't sold so she moved back there. I have reimbursed her for money she contributed towards the deposit and some home improvements we made. This was around £7000 that I've reimbursed her.

During the 9 months we lived in the new house together i covered all outgoings I.e mortgage and utilities, this totalled £7024 so if she had paid me half this amount it would be £4686.

I've asked her if she would be willing to repay me some of me this money as I feel its only fair. She was living under the roof and using the utilities however she has gone silent.

Do I have a legal entitlement to be reimbursed some of these costs or do I just need to accept the loss? If I am entitled to the money, how would I go about getting it back?

Thanks for reading and any responses.

Njb

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ComtesseDeSpair · 27/04/2023 11:36

Our agreement was that she would continue to cover the costs of her own apartment and I would cover the significantly higher outgoings on the new house until she had sold her own apartment.

If that was your agreement then there was never any commitment for her to pay 50% of the bills and utilities for your house. Deciding after you’ve broken up that you don’t like the agreement or don’t think it was fair doesn’t alter it.

Chalk it up to experience, accept that you’d have paid 100% of your mortgage if she hadn’t lived there, and move on.

Drummend01 · 27/04/2023 11:51

As PP said, you both agreed that you would pay the costs of the house so no, you are not entitled to anything. That was the agreement you made and your hindsight doesn’t change that.

Njb86 · 27/04/2023 12:30

Feared so, thanks for the swift responses

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