A few years ago, in good faith, I made allegations to the police about my partner's conduct. I requested these remain completely confidential and not be investigated further. I provided no evidence, and was told that based on the information given, no crime had been committed. I was given a crime reference number, a victim support pack, and sure enough, my Ex has remained oblivious ever since.
Fast forward a few years, we aren't together and we just about get along for the sake of our shared child. However, they've been in trouble with the police over other matters since.
Now, I'm paranoid that if my Ex ever requests a subject access request (SAR) to see anything anybody has ever said about them, then my unsubstantiated, unactioned allegations would show up from years ago. This would have devastating consequences, given the nature of my Ex.
Having researched online, it seems a SAR will show up allegations.
But other old threads on mumsnet seem to suggest that allegations may not show up if I hadn't consented to the allegations being made known to the person they were about.
What is your experience, knowledge or thoughts on the matter?
Has anyone requested a SAR, and seen allegations showing up under locally held police data? If so, what level of detail does it go into? (Name of the person making allegations? Date? Crime reference number?)
And what should I consider doing next?
-Ask the police to confirm if the allegations would indeed show up on the persons SAR, should they ever request one. (If the police say definitely not, then I can relax.)
-Or withdraw the allegations, if possible? (Not as being untrue, just as not being worth the drama that would ensure if Ex found them, and because water has passed under the bridge and we're now amicable at distance)
-Or restress to the police that the incident must remain confidential
-Or make a local police data erasure request for the record to be removed.
Thanks, I appreciate your advice.