Good Lord. Why do people not read properly? And then make themselves look foolish with wild and incorrect assumptions? Never ceases to amaze me.....
I read instantly that your Divorce was grated without Ancillary Matters being resolved. (I was bulldozed, and weak.) The Solicitors(s) are partly at fault for letting (encouraging?) this to happen, and anyway it is ill-advisable, and the absolute opposite of the "Clean Break" some parties seem to want.
Obviously, that is bad enough - and now further complicated by his illness, and potential upcoming death. I guess, at this point in time, were he to die, his Will would be taken into account, but am sure that you have some rights due tot he AM not having been completed. I thought that the Form E (Financial Disclosure) was an integral part of the Divorce even if, as happened with me, it was almost utterly ignored...
You do need some legal assistance, quickly I would say.
And a few on here need to check their comprehension skills.
(In my case, the Divorce was granted one year, and the Ancillary Matters a year l(went before Judge for that), maybe more, later - and I did not receive anything until a year after that! And he wasn't - unfortunately - about to die!)
God, it dragged on. And he was the "guilty" party....
Oh and look out for the phrase Calderbank Letter. It is a horrible threat.