Not sure where to begin. Apologies this may be lengthy but please stick with me.
I had severe sickness whilst pregnant with hyperemesis (hg) 3 years ago and spent months in and out of hospital for treatment. I was put on multiple medications as well as 2 different steroids. IV and tablet ones. It was the only way to stop me vomiting as I couldn't even hold water down.
Every time I was given these medications I questioned multiple times to all the midwives, Dr's and consultants asking if it could have any detrimental affects on my unborn child physically or mentally. Each time I was told no, its safe. I said are you 100% sure and they said yes. My MIL was with me and questioned it as well.
My child is now nearly 3yrs old and has been showing signs of SEN since around 15months. It's been an absolute battle with health visitors, GPs and paediatricians etc to get help for him as "covid baby" is all I've had back in comments. I've said no thats wrong as all his little friends are fine and born within a couple months of him. He is finally getting assessed in the next few weeks with different tests, due to severe speech delay, and showing autistic traits/adhd, possible hearing issues etc.
I've been researching a bit myself and read that in pregnancy the medications I was given could cause autism/adhd etc in the child. I am absolutely fuming now that I was allowed to be given these medications. I was so unwell when I was given them I didn't have the energy to research enough myself of which I'm really annoyed I didn't.
If it comes back he does have these SEN, would I have any chance of sueing the NHS for negligence of my unborn child by giving me medication knowing it could harm him?