I’m the SE on my dads will which is in its second probate process (been through probate where it was executed, now going through probate in another country where it was registered)
It is all responsibility, no rights, a pp said. You also only act as Executor if the Executor cannot or will not do what they are supposed to.
I found the original will while clearing my Dads home and sent it to my brother- the executor for probate- so I do know what is in it as my Dad hadn’t sealed it in an envelope or anything. I don’t have a “right to know” what’s in the will due to being SE. As I am a beneficiary, my brother has told us all our share and he shared the inventory of assets with all beneficiaries when he filed for the first probate.
My brother executor also delegated to me the selling of my Dads home and his affairs as it is abroad and I am closer to that country than where my brother lives (also abroad , but very far away).
I don’t know what legal firms he is using, and don’t care. Similarly he doesn’t know the estate agents and solicitor for the house sale..due to different laws my Dad actually died intestate by the country’s law that he was resident in as he never registered his will there (oops). So that country doesn’t care that I’m not primary executor as by their law, there is no will. As one of the heirs by the intestancy laws, the other heirs signed POAs for me to do that bit of the estate on behalf of all of us.
Executor is a long hard slog. I was sole representative for my mum (she had no will and so I filed to be appointed representative by the courts to have authority to settle her estate). So it’s actually nice to be settling my dads estate with my brother instead of doing it alone.
I hope there’s not anything fishy going on, the executor should be sharing some information to be transparent and I’m sorry for your loss.